Lessons learned

Every relationship good or bad is a lesson learned. Here are few lessons I've picked up along the way...

1. I absolutely can not be the girl on the side, the fuck buddy, or the number one that is wifey material once you feel like settling down.

2. If you haven't been to college we can't connect at this point in my life, because college is where i'm at.

3. I don't like to be questioned all the time about what i'm doing and who i'm doing it with

4. If I'm going to take a person back i really have to forgive them completely and forget or else it will never be the same.

5. Listen more, if a man tells you something never forget it, you can use it against him in the future or use it to better your relationship, either way you need to keep it all in your memory

6. Never Ever go into a relationship in a negative mind set about men

7. If your gut tells you something is not right, then follow your natural instinct

8. Sometimes a drive by is necessary, you catch sooooo much!

9. Be generous but not stupid

10.LUST is a powerful thing, don't start something you can't or don't want to finish

11. Taking your time can be a good thing

12. Get all of your old flings/ex boys out of the way before you began a new relationship or else you will hate the person your with because they are not the person you really wanted.

13.Never accept being 2nd place

14. Just because you love the person doesnt' mean they love you, so wait until you know it is mutual to go all out

15. the first step of love is denial. Most ppl. are in denial with the fact that they are actually in love.

16. If he wants you, you will know because it will be obvious and you won't have any questions about it

17. You don't ever need to wait or force a person to do right, they should want to do you right

18. speak up if the sex is bad, that's the only way it will get better

19.looks don't mean a thing

20. You have to be comfortable with yourself before you can ever be confident with your man.

21. Don't let your pride get in the way

Well that's it for now, i guess my next relationship will give me a few more to add! Oh and the ladies tag feel free to add to the list!